Personal Power Day 15 Review: Overcoming fear of Failure, Rejection and Success

Fear or Failure, Fear of Success, Fear of Rejection

Failure and Success are completely interwoven

Fear is a very powerful emotional state. Success is the exact same thing!

False Evidence Appearing Real

Failure is impossible, you can only fail if you tell yourself you fail. You decide if you fail or not.

Only you can label yourself as a failure or as a success. You determine what is failure and what is success. No two people have the same perspective or the same requirements of what it means to have success or to fail.

You want to make it really easy to make yourself feel good and really hard to feel bad.

Never achieve to be happy!

Happily achieve!

What must happen in order for you to feel successful? Write this down, figure it out.

**Tony’s definition of success: No matter what the situation is, if I have given my all and I have learned
something, then it is a success.

**Tony’s definition of failure: I have to give up and not even try, that’s failure

Make it a lot easier to feel successful than it is to feel like a failure

Our own core beliefs generate our own emotions.

What would you attempt to do if you knew you couldn’t fail. (would you do almost anything?)

The set up the rules of your life in such a way that it is impossible for you to fail.

You are always in control you control the outcome and whether or not you fail or succeed.

You must decided fear of failure and fear of success is no longer going to control your life.

The past does not equal the future! It doesn’t mean anything, the only thing that matters is right now!

If all you ever do is feel like shit, your never gonna do better. You must get rid of the feelings of failure and get over your failures and focus only on success.

Many people have fear associated with success. They have more pain with the thoughts of success than pleasure so they fear it.

Whenever your are dealing with fear of failure, success or rejection you need to ask yourself these two questions:
1. What is the price I will pay in my life if I let this fear control my life. What kind of things are you going to miss out on, who will you never meet, what will you never experience or be able to do. What happiness will never be there, ect ect. Whats the price you will pay long term if you never get over this feeling of fear.
2. Write down all the pleasure, all the benefits, all the experience, everything that you will be able to gain from freeing yourself from fear of failure, success and rejection.

Things to know about rejection:
1. Massive rejection is the key to success, anyone who has had massive success has had massive massive failure. Some of the most popular things in the world experienced massive failure first.
2. Anyone who has succeeded on a massive scale has most likely experienced more rejection at first than success.’
a. Sylvester Stalone was rejected by over 1000 agents in NYC before he became a massive star
b. Tim Ferris NY Times best selling book was turned down by 26 of 27 publishers.
Massive Rejection can mean your close to where you want to be because the better your idea, though or position, the more controversial it becomes because everyone’s view on the world is different.

Condition yourself so that whenever you get rejected you feel stronger.

If you condition yourself you can do whatever you want in life.